Coming from a backend developer — I started learning to code two months ago. It was a life-altering decision I had to make. But because of my terrible learning habits — procrastination and inconsistency — I decided to publish my coding journey online. Following some critical self introspection, I chose to study frontend development. Today marks…

I’ll have who she’s having — My cousin slept with her friend’s dad. She told me “taken” men make her feel special because they choose her instead of the girlfriend or wife. I ended a friendship with a woman who’s exactly like this. …

Did you know it’s not illegal for your father to buy your nudes? Karla wrote in her caption. — On Today’s episode of Messy TikTok, a 19-year-old Tiktoker and Onlyfans user, Karla Ramirez, exposed her father on TikTok. She posted a series of videos recounting the sexual abuse she suffered at the hands of her father, his friends, and girlfriends. The First Upsetting Discovery In the overlay text of her first viral TikTok…

Nobody can steal your man — I've heard the phrase "she stole my husband" a thousand times. Mostly from women who air their dirty linens on TikTok. I had no idea one could steal, poach or snatch men from women. Damn! I'd have been married by now. But the last time I checked, a man is…

One word — patriarchy — A few years ago, Groovaroo Dance Studio in California uploaded a video of dads dancing with their babies strapped to their bodies on Facebook. OMG! It blew up. People gushed over the fact that these dads wanted to dance with their babies. …

My ex-husband is now my stepfather…… — In today’s episode of Messy TikTok, a Tiktoker’s ex-husband married her mother after they divorced. So currently, her ex-husband is her stepfather and step-grandpa to their two children. On the other hand, her mom, her kids’ grandma, is now their stepmother. This reminds me of the guy that was his…

Is this an abbreviated, misogynist, or sexist phrase? — “Don’t be a pussy” “You’ve got some balls” “Stop Pussy-ing around!” “Grow a pair of nuts!” “How ballsy!” These phrases include analogies of the female and male genitalia. The female equates weakness, while the male implies bravery or strength. I never understood why a woman’s vagina is universally perceived as…

How to make payments by just waving your card, mobile phone, wristwatch over a PoS terminal — Payment methods are rapidly evolving due to technological advancements. Tap to pay is the latest payment method. With its increased speed, additional security and convenience, people no longer depend on traditional payment options. As the name implies, it enables consumers to make payments by tapping or waving their card or…

You aren’t supposed to get a standing ovation for combing your daughter’s hair or taking out the trash! — I cringed when I read the comments of a TikTok video. The video featured a father combing and styling his daughter’s hair. Not just any female but his daughter. “Awww, you’re such a great dad” “Your wife is so fortunate to have you” were all over the comments. Women wished…